"Sadness"

Well I and a lot of people can relate to the word Sadness , most of us try to ignore this feeling because we only see the negative in Sadness. We have been taught to ignore a lot our feelings and just keep them to ourselves, because in order to survive in this life you can't show so many feelings. This goes for women and men but if they weren't necessary God wouldn't have given us the ability to feel, whether Happy or Sad. The most outrageous thing and so contradicting is that we teach our men that they aren't real men if they cry or feel any kind of emotion but yet we want them to feel something when it comes to us women. You don't have to agree but it's the truth and that's because we as a human race are very selfish, only want to deal with our feelings and nobody else's unless its on our time. We have to learn and remember that these feelings are our gifts from God and we need every Sad, Mad, Bad, and Angry moment in our lives. Feeling Sad can sometimes motivate you to do better or  to help make a certain change in your life that needs to take place, also to help you become an Awesome woman or man. People we have to stop looking at everything in a negative perspective and see the positive in every situation, easier said than done but its possible with God's help. With every tear that is shed God takes them and after you cry you feel relieved to continue in this journey called life and then comes a smile with comfort of Happiness. Now with that said when the time comes and you feel everything but happy, don't stay there take or receive what you need to from the situation and move forward in your life. So feel free to feel Sadness or any other emotion that you want when you want because nobody is You, and no we don't or shouldn't want to see people Sad or hurting, but sometimes we should just be a hug, a shoulder, and listener for that person in their time of need. No one can tell you how or what to feel at that moment because you were created for something special and God has allowed you at that time to feel whatever it is you feel, for your Purpose and He needs you to feel and have a heart.... Until next time!!!
         " Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it springs the issues of life" -Proverbs 4:23
"You heard their cries for help and saved them. They put their trust in you and were never disappointed".-Psalms 22:5