"Sadness"

Well I and a lot of people can relate to the word Sadness , most of us try to ignore this feeling because we only see the negative in Sadness. We have been taught to ignore a lot our feelings and just keep them to ourselves, because in order to survive in this life you can't show so many feelings. This goes for women and men but if they weren't necessary God wouldn't have given us the ability to feel, whether Happy or Sad. The most outrageous thing and so contradicting is that we teach our men that they aren't real men if they cry or feel any kind of emotion but yet we want them to feel something when it comes to us women. You don't have to agree but it's the truth and that's because we as a human race are very selfish, only want to deal with our feelings and nobody else's unless its on our time. We have to learn and remember that these feelings are our gifts from God and we need every Sad, Mad, Bad, and Angry moment in our lives. Feeling Sad can sometimes motivate you to do better or  to help make a certain change in your life that needs to take place, also to help you become an Awesome woman or man. People we have to stop looking at everything in a negative perspective and see the positive in every situation, easier said than done but its possible with God's help. With every tear that is shed God takes them and after you cry you feel relieved to continue in this journey called life and then comes a smile with comfort of Happiness. Now with that said when the time comes and you feel everything but happy, don't stay there take or receive what you need to from the situation and move forward in your life. So feel free to feel Sadness or any other emotion that you want when you want because nobody is You, and no we don't or shouldn't want to see people Sad or hurting, but sometimes we should just be a hug, a shoulder, and listener for that person in their time of need. No one can tell you how or what to feel at that moment because you were created for something special and God has allowed you at that time to feel whatever it is you feel, for your Purpose and He needs you to feel and have a heart.... Until next time!!!
         " Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it springs the issues of life" -Proverbs 4:23
"You heard their cries for help and saved them. They put their trust in you and were never disappointed".-Psalms 22:5
                                

"LOVE"

Real Love is a topic that really didn't want to address. On the hand it's one that needs to be addressed, because people have misconstrued what "Love" really means or should I say what Love really is. People say love hurt, love don't love me, and my favorite love doesn't live here anymore. Love doesn't hurt us, we hurt each other by abusing and misusing the word Love. Quotes of Love hurting begins to make Love look and sound evil, mean, bitter, painful, and filled with hatred. Love by definition isn't any of those things, just because you took the word Love and the feeling it gives you and played with it like a ball, and said it to every man or woman you thought actually knew the definition of Love, doesn't make it real Love. When that happens then those quotes begin to flow through you mind and you begin to believe the wrong definition of Love. Then there are words like deep affection, fondness, tenderness, warmth, intimacy, compassion, concern, and care. Those words are beautiful and those words are the definition of Love from the human perspectives.The real definition is God, than we have words like unconditional, peace, joy, patients, kindness,faithfulness, comfort, and freedom comes from Real Love. I suggest that you get to know God because he is Love and if He's Love and we can't fathom what or who God really is. He only gives us pieces of who He is and what He can do, so with that being said we as a human race don't know how far the definition of Love really goes. Love is so much more than just a word. Until next time....
                                "Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with truth. It always protects, always trusts,   always hopes, and always perseveres. LOVE never fails." - 1Corinthians 13:4-8

Expectations

When it comes to Expectations you've got to have a balance especially when it comes to people. Having Expectations on the job, at school, your home, and God that's different. Allow me to explain, we as a human race Expect to much out of each other and we also can be critical and judge mental. For instance some of us say the reason they don't go to church is because the Pastor isn't practicing what he's preaching and the members aren't being the Christians they claim to be. That brings me back to the point I am trying to make we need a balance when comes Expectations because the Pastor isn't GOD and the members aren't perfect as well. With that said Acceptance is the key, if you Accept people for who they are then you wouldn't have high Expectations for them! Until next time...
       
         " I will trust in the Lord with all my heart and lean not to my own understanding, but in all my ways I will acknowledge Him and he will direct my path.  -Proverbs 3:5,6

Who Are You???

Who are you ? I have your answer. You are beautiful and unique , You're smart and wise , You're the person nobody else can be, and last but not least You're who God created You to be. Don't allow anyone to label you, place an image on you that your trying to up hold. Don't allow insecurities and low self esteem to put you in bondage. You're a Beautiful person that people need to see and they need You too! Set yourself free from everything people , family, friends, and society have said YOU ARE!!! The Bible says that we are made in the image of God, which means we are Awesome, Amazing, Loving, and Gorgeous.

     " I praise you, for you are fearfully and wonderfully made ."
                                            Psalm 139: 14

Who's taking Care of your House(You)???

Such a good question that truly deserves an answer. What I mean by House is your spirit and your body. The main focus is your Spirit because what you allow to happen on the inside of you reflects on the outside. See on the inside is where insecurities try to hid and the more they try to hid, the easier their seen. For instances imagine your a beautiful House, the inside is gorgeous and you have two levels. Now lets take a look the inside of the house. There are five bedrooms, two bathrooms, an attic and a basement. People have moved in and out of the House (relationships with men or women), kids have drawn on the walls in the bedrooms (labels or images people use to describe you), the attic is filled with things from peoples past that they're holding on too (memories good or bad) and last but not least the basement has things people have, that hasn't been seen by others but are yet to be exposed ( secrets, insecurities, heartbreak, abuse and pain). Now the House begins to fall apart on the inside (your Spirit) and outside (your Body), because the House (you) wasn't created for mistreatment and the person that built the house (God) had idea of the right family that needed to live there (The Holy Spirit and Jesus). So if your not taking care of You than who is or will? Also if not opening the door for the right person who can help get rid of things in your life that wasn't meant for you in the first place, then Who's taking care of You???

                      " My body is the house of God. God lives in me" 2Corinthians 3:16

The Pictures of Life

I know the title is a little weird but The Pictures of Life means how we view every thing in life. For example, when you see your future no matter the age you Picture it in your mind how you think it will be. Picturing things in your mind is another form of your memory or imagination. We as humans take mind photos and sometimes the photos are bad memories and some are good but they're our personal pictures. That's why we ask the question where do see or picture your self in life. You should ask your self what pictures have I taken in the years of my existence? The key to this question is that it's just a Picture either in your past and if so gives those past photos (memories) to God. If your photos is what you want and you plan for your future, make sure your walking in the will of God and the void you trying to fill with beautiful photos (memories) of your future will be filled. Also remember the Picture of who you are can always be edited, cropped, and Photoshop if you allow God to help you become who you really want to be. That person you feel in your heart that you would love to set free she or he is not what everyone wants you to be. That's The Big Picture well until next time....

                                  " I delight myself in the Lord and he will give me the desires of my heart"
                                                                                                                 Psalm 37:4

Control

Control is such a small word but has such a powerful meaning. The human race loves to believe that if we have money, cars, clothes , and relationships we are in Control of our lives. But in reality all those things Controls us. If we learn to live without being concerned or worried about having so much Control of our lives we may be able to actually Live and not just be Existing. The word Control is just a word but it controls us sometime. So instead wanting so much control let's have Faith that everything that is suppose to be will be. Because God is in control and he has your best interest at heart!!!! Until next time...

                   "I live and walk by Faith and not by sight or feelings"  Hebrews 10:38

              " My God shall supply all my needs according to his riches and glory by Christ Jesus " Philippians 4:19

Anger

It's amazing how Anger sometimes feel so comfortable and in that moment it feels right. But there are side effects to being Angry 1. Your are alone because you don't want to hear what anybody has to say. 2. You feel like no one understands what happening in that moment. 3. It's takes a lot of energy to stay Angry. 4. You don't get anything accomplished because your not thinking clearly. My point is that we have to stop thinking Anger is the answer for a lot of things because after its gone we have to clean up the mess we made during that moment. Also Anger is just a feeling that we have sometimes it's temporary and sometimes we need to get but not stay that way. When we come tour senses and we're thinking clearly we see that being Angry was pointless because a clear and rational mind always win. Just my thought you don't have to agree. Well see you later!!! With love Honest Monia......

Fighting to live

This morning was extremely harsh and intolerable. My body likes to fight against me alot. Everyday I wake up in pain and sometimes it's even hard to use my hands because they lock up. So everyday I have to Fight to Live literally. I have Lupus and what this is an auto immune disease. In other words body doesn't produce enough white blood cells that will help me fight anything that's not suppose to be in me. So instead of protecting me, it attacks itself. When it storms my body stiffness up and I am not able to use any of my limbs. I was truly ready to give up but God allowed me to get some rest and body began to relax. I believe that I will be healed from this chronic disease. Until next time...

       " By stripes I am healed "
                              Isaiah 53:4,5

Happiness

Being happy is what everyone wants and that's what everyone is striving toward. People believe that once they achieve their goals or get the things in life they want then, they will be happy. Not realizing Happiness is temporary and so are things and goals, because things get old and after you reach your goals then you have new goals to reach. So instead of striving for Happiness, lets strive for Joy because it's everlasting. No matter  the situation or circumstances you can have Joy that brings a peace to you. Until next time!!!

           " The joy of the Lord is
            my strength" Nehemiah 8:10

Acceptance

Accepting who you are is hard sometimes, especially since the world tells who and where you should be in your life. It's not always society who tells you to change who you are, a lot of times it begins at home with your family( parents, siblings, and other extended family members) . So when that happens insecurities come in and you began to believe what has been said about you, to you and how society views you. Then you begin to put pressure on yourself and that's when you start changing who you are (your hair, clothes, and your speech) . Once it's all said and done you look in the mirror and you don't recognize the reflection. The point I am trying to make is Be You and Accept who God created you to be. Until next time...

      "I let the peace of God rule in my heart. I refuse to worry about anything " 1Peter 5:7

The Present

You know it's amazing how everyone looks forward to the future but doesn't appreciate the Present. The Past is what helped you become the person God intended you to be. The struggles, heart breaks, the pain, the love, and those moments of happiness from your Past helped mode you, sharpen you, and helped  make you the person you are today. So be glad and content with the Present and enjoy life now, because the Future will just be a bonus. Until next time!!!
               
        "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, thoughts of Peace and not of Evil, to give you a Future and a Hope" Jeremiah 29:11

New Blogger

Hello all bloggers , I am new at blogging just want to let you know a little about me. I am a 26 year old beautiful women and I am fighting to survive this horrible disease Lupus. My journey for this began two years ago and at first I thought to myself "this is the end". Now I am fighting and winning. One thing I have learned is life is short , you don't know what's ahead. So bloggers everyday is new day to try again or start something you've always wanted to do. If your still living that means it's never to late. Until next time!!!

 

 

 

                   " I can do all things through Christ who

                     strengthens me" Philippians 4:13